Manipulation

Manipulation

How to Recognize and Outwit Emotional Manipulation and Mind Control in Your Relationships

By:

Sarah Nielsen

Narrated By:

Dan McDermott

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Do you find yourself helping others even when you don't want? Are you always feeling guilty when you tell others no? Do your friends tend to guilt trip you into doing things for them? Are you tired of feeling like you have no control over your life? Are you tired of being victimized? If you answered "yes" to any of these questions, then "Manipulation" is the perfect book for you. Inside this book by Sarah Nielsen, you are going to learn everything that you need to know about manipulation, including why people do it and how you can learn to deal with it. One of the first things that you will learn about when reading through "Manipulation" is the warnings signs of an emotional manipulator. These warning signs will give you an idea of what to look for to try and help you determine if the person is manipulating you. Some of the most basic signs include negative reinforcement, as well as punishing you in some form for not doing what it is they want.

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